Does your child listen to you?
Tired that your child does not listen to you and tries to show that you do not know what their generation up to? Is your child talk’s maturely and is fed up from the Gyan you give them. Eat dinner with your family as often as you can. Eating dinner with your children encourages healthy eating habits. It also allows you a chance to re-connect as a family, to discuss what went on during the day. When you eat together as a family, you know where your children are and what they're doing in the evenings, which makes it easier to curtail or control destructive behaviors.
Here are the tips by Dr. Neha Mehta (My Fit Brain)
1) Discipline is important when raising children, but punishment can ruin a child's future. Making the distinction between loving correction and angry retribution is critical; a child must learn to trust you before they will truly change their behavior.
2)To build love and trust between your children (while also correcting their wrong actions) repeat the fact that you love them, even in discipline. Also, wait until you are calm before delivering discipline; never act in fury.
3) Parents, this age is the time when children think that you are not up to their mark, you will not understand their issues, or discussing them with you will be of no use.
It was said that in adolescence age (11-17years) your child fire you from your job as their parents. You need to improve yourself, mold yourself according to them.try to be their age as their friends, so that they interview you, and keep you back as their consultant. Never yell at your children. It is best to talk to them with a calm voice, no matter how bad they are being. The more upset you get, the more upset they will get and things will spiral out of control very quickly. Keep your calm as much as possible. Maintaining distance at this age will bring difference for a lifetime between you and your child.
During this age, discussion topics include: Sex education, Personality issues among friends, knowledge about fashion, how to be different and attractive, and need for love (problems). If you have one of those children that do not like to have their hair washed, consider making a mock salon in your home. It is a great way for you and your child to have a great imaginary trip to the salon and may make it a bit easier to get her to cooperate in washing her hair.“Nobody is a better guide to children than their parents”. This is what you know. A great parenting tip is to take time out of your busy schedule to spend with your child.
Don't get too caught up in your work or other things. Your child deserves attention and you should set aside enough time to spend with them from time to time. Let them follow this too not forcefully but happily. Playing outside with your child will benefit the both of you. Playing together outside will also help keep you both physically fit and help you to live happier, healthier lives. Feel free to consult a counselor for problems.