Does your child throw tantrums when his/her wish does not get fulfilled? Tantrums of your children is somewhat makes you frustrate, moreover sometimes you loose your anger and later on feel guilty for your action.
Yes, they are perfectly normal for child development. But exceeding the limit quite harmful.
Here are the tips by Dr. Neha Mehta (My Fit Brain)
1. SHOW EMPATHY
Empathy simply means acknowledging what your children express or wish, reassurance can help to diffuse and divert their attention towards that need or want.
For example: say to your child with empathy “I can see you are upset” what can mamma do for you?
Try to cheer their mood by diverting.
Remember that expressing empathy doesn’t means that you are giving in to their demands.
2. STOP ARGUING:
You can use this tip when you cannot afford or think that giving what they want is good for them.
Still if your child continues to complain and start argument with you. Calm down with sympathetic statement
“I heard you and I know that you really want that toy, but it’s not going to be possible.
3. EXPRESS WHY NOT:
Your child has right to know why you are saying no their needs this will make them more subtle in future.
Before using these tips you must be sure that his demands are a want rather than physical need secondly first time using these tools might increase their anger but in later ages, you will feel difference. Feel free to consult counsellor .
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