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Did You Ever Think Inside Yourself What First Love Is?

What is First Love
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Neha Mehta General 04 Sep 2020

Love is the most divine and peaceful feeling in the world. And it makes you passionate about life. Love makes your bonding of relationship stronger. Love takes you to eternal tranquility, which is why we should make our youths aware of ‘what is first love?’

There are four types of relationship which we usually experience in life. The four types of relationships are family relationships, friendships, acquaintanceships, and romantic relationships.

This article is to elaborate on first love. It is part of a romantic relationship. It is the very first special romantic relationship we experience in life.

What is the first love in the Bible?

It means “first in time or place; first in rank; first, at first” in Old & New Testament Greek Lexicon. It is when Jesus says, “You have left your first love,” He points that He has lost the position of being in the first place in the life of someone.

It is also quite interesting to know that the first time the word “love” is used in the Bible is in Genesis 22:2 – “Then He said, “Take now your son, your only son Isaac, whom you love, and go to the land of Moriah, and offer him there as a burnt offering on one of the mountains of which I shall tell you.”

So this is first love meaning in the bible.

Facts about you first love

* You get caught staring at someone lovingly.
* You always feel that you are like living somewhere else.
* You cannot help yourself, not thinking about the one ever.
* You always want the one to be happy.
* You start to forget all your pain. Your focus is all on him or her.
* Your mood always synchronizes with his or her mood.

These can be said the effects of first love.    

What is first love like?

Sometimes instead, it can be said that first love happens at the very first sight. It may happen with strangers, and you go on searching for them. You become restless until you get another glimpse of the person.

It is all naughty functions of hormones at teenagers.

You keep on waiting for the one person. You do not get bored if the one does not show up at the time. Everything is fine with the one. It seems to you that one is perfect for you. This one person is the first and last love for you.

You want to spend your whole life with that one person. You dream and keep on dreaming and planning your future with the one.

But in all these games the one is stranger to you. You know nothing about the one. But you do not actually care because you love this very first feeling of love.

Now let us assume you know the person. You often meet the one. You share quite good friends, or you barely talk with each other. But there is no dislike, and you both are not too much close also.

That is when the actual mystery begins. You want to talk, but you get nervous in front of him or her. You start to stammer while you talk. You want to look smart, but yet you end up doing stupid things.

But still, you want to impress the one person anyhow. It is the time when you start to feel that you want to see him or her in particular very often. The person brings a feeling of joy to you.

Whenever you are with that particular person, you feel that you are alive, and this life is not miserable anymore. It is actually beautiful, indeed. Now you have started to know that ‘what is first love?’

Whenever you see or hear something about that person, you feel interested and when you come close by him or her, you can feel your heartbeats are going so fast. Your breathing goes deep then. These are also physical signs of love.

Is first love and first crush the same?

There is a fine line between first love and first crush. The line is all about caring and sharing the feeling of each other.

You cannot love a person until you do not know the one. You can have a crush on strangers, but love can only be found when you get to know each other. You have to share your feeling.

How do you know if someone if your first love?

If you start to experience all those previously mentioned effects in life, then you are in your first love.

First love quotes

Dr. Niloo Dardashti, a couple’s therapist, based in New York, said, ‘first love is the one that you first truly have feelings for. You will never forget the one. Their love will leave precious memories and beautiful moments for you that will stay with you forever.’

Art Aron, a psychology professor at the State University of New York at Stony Brook who specializes in close relationships, says, ‘at the moment you don't care that you will eventually lose them after break up because that emotion is amazing.

Falling in love was the best thing that has ever happened to you, but now that is gone, you feel hopeless. Your first love will be the one hardest to get over. The one that you can still make you smile even when you are having the worst day ever. The one who broke you, but you will still love. Your first love never leaves.’

First love signs

There is no second love or no last love. There is only first love. Whether you are a guy or you are a girl, you cannot forget your first love. It is the purest innocent feeling you experience in your life for the very first time.

In these days of hatred, when people are engaging themselves in violence, love is the most valuable feeling of divinity. Evil intentions are like cancer to the world. Only love and compassion can heal this. It is essential to know what is first love.

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