Q. What is counseling?

Saying it simply, counseling is consulting with a therapist who is an objective, non-judgmental and professionally trained person, with whom you can share your innermost thoughts and feelings. This helps you to understand yourself better and helps you to address your emotional difficulties in a more adaptive fashion. These difficulties could be something you are facing in day to day life, a sit .....

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Q. What to expect from counseling?

Any emotional problem or difficulty has its roots in our inner nature. Our feelings depend on how we think about ourselves, others and our situations. Often we think in ways that are not rational or we think about situations mistakenly. This is not because we are “foolish” or “wrong” in any way but because we have learnt to think of certain things only in certain ways. B .....

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Q. I'm 22 years old male, basically from a middle-class family. I am a student of B.Com final year and am an average student. For last six month my life is not running smooth. It has changed suddenly. I had a girlfriend. I really loved her a lot even still now I love her. But six months before I have caught her in a movie Hall with another one guy. Then I came in front of her in the parking area and found she was behaving differently with me. That boy also abused me, I loosed my temper and slapped and have slapped her as well. Before this incident, I haven't loose my mind like this, but I'm not feeling any guilt by slapping both of them at that time. That day after the fight she has accepted that that boy is her boyfriend and also threaten me by saying that the boy has some political connection so I should keep distance. I loose my mind again as it directly hit on my ego and again mess up with that boy. But I was alone in front of his gang of five boys; so beaten up badly and was hospitalised after a good fight. I couldn't reveal my original incident to my parents; I lied to my parents. But I'm trying to control myself, not able to forget her. Out of my control I have called my ex-girlfriend many times but she gave me a very cold reply. I miss her a lot, I miss her love and care towards me. I want to be happy again in my life but don't know how?? I feel cheated, rejected, lonely. Tried to divert my mind from the thoughts of my ex but I couldn't. I have changed my routine, changed my target, have started preparing for civil services but still not able to concentrate. Her thoughts are coming into my mind again and over again. Help me, please.

Hello dear!! I can understand the pain you are going through. Your love hasn't weakend you mentally even physically too . First of All, I m happy to that you we're loyal in this relationship but tell Me, can you force anyone to love you??? I know it's easy for me to say you the same, because I'm not at your place( Bolna asaan h ) But brother, going after a thing who doenst belon .....

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Q. I'm 26 years old girl. I had lost alot in my life. From my childhood my life was not so smooth it was full of ups and downs. I saw my father to abuse my mother every second and sometimes he use to bit her alot due to some issues. I saw my helpless mother crying helplessly. Nobody helped her not even my mother could overcome from this situation and died one day by committing suicide out of these continuos torture of my father. As I grow I being touched by love but there also I was ditched by him. Then joined a job but there also I became the victim of bullying by my colleagues and seniors due my accent in English. I started feeling very low in confidence loose all my hopes to stand strong. These series of events in my life makes my mind very week. Its full of complications, dilemmas, fearful thoughts about future. I only can imagine bad outcomes of any situation and repeatedly these thoughts are making my condition poor day by day. I have loose the trust in any relationship. I feel very helpless, I feel like it's end of my life. Sometimes I feel very much worried lonely fearful that can't explain in words.

Dear, Life only means ups and downs, moreover, god gives difficulties in life to those who believes has power to live upto them. YOU ARE POWERFUL! I can really sympathize with you by reading all the situations you faced since your childhood If it was someone else, they must have lost hope , You are really a STRONG WOMAN. As the current problems you mentioned: 1. History of disturbed events made .....

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Q. Am a 24 years old girl, married last year. Before marriage, we were engaged in phone romance with each other. I was satisfied then as his sensual talks make me more erotic. But after marriage when we had real physical intimacy I'm not satisfied with him. I have approached him for that type of erotic word exchange and all but he is so cold. I started becoming frustrated due to this and also became aggressive. We stated to having fight every day. So decided to get separated. But again he tried to convince me and again we became intimate but the problem persisted as he was not able to satisfy me. One day I became so aggressive and started fighting with him. Now my husband wants a divorce. I have left my job. Am feeling more depressed. It's all my fault. Please help me to overcome this situation, I don't want a divorce from my husband. Please help me. -

Hello lady, first of all congratulations for your Marriage! Secondly, Don't be stressed , your husband love You, so do you. I can understand the scenario over your place, you don't need to divorce him rather apologize for your behaviour. As the problem stated by you is: 1. Not feeling sexually satisfied as expected. 2. The circle of frustration- Anger- Fights continuing. 3. Stressed as .....

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