Oct 16, 2017
Q. Hello, I'm 32 years old male. I am married and running a well established home business. I have a lovely wife and two children. Everything was going well with us, but my greedy nature became an issue in my life. Actually I discus everytime with my father about any investment on money; but I have invested more than one crore on a disputed land because of my friend's opinion and out of my greediness. I didn't disclose this huge loss to my father nor to my family. We are planning to buy a new home, but only I know about my situation. I'm very depressed right now. I feeling like quit my life most of the time. Feeling very much helpless and hopeless. Don't know about my further steps, how will I manage my loss, how will I tell it to my family?
Hello sir!! I can empathise the situation you are dwelling in. winning and losing is a part of journey called life.
First of all, don't quit, stand firm. when your business go high, your family supports you same when you went through some loss they will be there to support you.
Sharing makes you less burdened and helps you to move on fast.
》 every person wants to invest money either in property or gold to have a safer future.
As the slump in property going on, making the investment zero.
Don't worry, falls are just ways to tell the person to always see the path where you are putting your steps.
Don't go hopeless. Your kids are your hope.
Your father is your help.
My advices for you as follows:
1. Share first:
Disclose the loss to your family members, sit with them be brave on your capabilities and express in positive way like "I have done this wrong , I want your support , we will able to overcome it soon.
I know you all trust me."
2. Greediness is normal human nature, don't stress yourself.
Talk to your friend or property dealer , take legal advice any possible way out, any further way of filling case and getting some way out.
3. Talk to family c.a and try to manage loss accounts , you yourself is business man you can understand, going up and down is part of business.
4. In extreme worry, take help from counselor nearby ,you can also involve any elder in family and sort help.
Don't loose help
All the best!!
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