Q. I'm an eighteen years old boy from Bangalore. I'm studying engineering. I don't know how to explain my problem, may be I'm not normal. But I feel a strong desire to love a boy. Im strongly attracted by boys there looks there body there voice. Recently I became friend with a boy senior than me with whom I really feel very happy comfortable. I love the way hugs me touch (normal human touch) me. I love his voice, I love the way he took care of mine. He knows that I love him but he is already in a relationship with a girl. How to deal with this thing - the desire for same sex love? But yes sometimes i feel some attraction towards my best friend who is a girl..... Am I mad? Should I go for counselling?
Hello dear! no, you are not mad yes, you need to go for counselling to know about your actual sexuality. I can understand the problems you are going through, attachment and love towards your senior. Firstly, you need to get yourself assessed for sexuality and their, proceed in working for the same. Don't stress! things will be sorted out soon.
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