Q. Hi all, how to react if someone comment on my skintone. My skin tone is dusky. We came to husband's home. His home is in Tamil nadu. Here bse of cyclone no power from 3 days. Now the situation is happened yday evening. Here my husband' s uncle came in the evening. He usually comes weekly once. When he was sitting I crossed him while I was about to take bath. At that time he told me like dnt tk bath.after power comes then tk bath. For that I replied like if I wait for power means it will take three more days. Upto this conversation I took as a joke. But for my reply he told if you doesn't take bath for 3 days also it won't visible on ur skin. This word hurted me most. I am not able to forget that word. This is not first time. Soo many time he is using these kind of words on me. How to handle these kind of situation .
Hey Dear!!! You can't let everyone like you the way you are. Be confident about your image. Take their negatives into positives by replying like:
Apko dekhne me pharak ni pdega; like I want to be hygienic.
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